Ok, just got back from the vets and they had a new vet in the office. I LOVE HIM. He took a good look at her, did the culture on her skin, checked out every nook and cranny and said it is not mites, its allergies and probably allergies to fleas. After I insisted that I do not have ONE flea in my house, he rolled her over, dug around and came up with a flea. I cannot believe it!! He couldn't find any more, but one was enough to shut me up.
Of course, she is allergic to everything else, why not fleas? He gave her a steroid shot, and antibiotic shot and put Revolution on her, which I must do monthly.
He said the food change was good and to keep her on the green pea food, its much better anyway.
My chemical-free pest control guy is coming on Monday to treat the whole house, and I have lots of vacuuming to do.
Ironically, while I was in there - they rushed in a cat with tremors and really sick - someone had just given it a bath in Bio Spot and it was having an allergic reaction to it!! I told him about what happened with Lily last night and he said I was lucky her reaction wasn't worse. He does want me to bathe her tomorrow with Dawn to make sure it is off of her, and that the Revolution has gotten into her system well.
Lily is NOT going to appreciate 3 baths in 3 days. I am going to be getting THE FACE for a few days, I can just tell!!
Thanks again for everything! You guys are brilliant!